Uncovering
Women's Power
by Kathleen Kiley
The Weston Forum
ELEVEN WOMEN ARE SITTING IN A CIRCLE, their eyes closed, as
therapist Jaqueline Lapa Sussman guides them through an eidetic
imagery exercise.
"Go back to the home you grew up in", she says, "and
picture your mother. Where is she? How does she look? What are
you feeling?" Ms Sussman asks.
After several moments of letting images and feelings surface,
everyone opens their eyes. Ms. Sussman breaks the silence and
asks if anyone would like to share what they have experienced.
After some hesitation, several women volunteer their experiences.
Some describe warm mother images, others cold and distant, while
others reveal that they could not visualize their mothers.
For the next six hours Ms. Sussman guides the group through additional
imagery exercises. The focus of the April 25 workshop was Discovering
Personal Images to Empower Women. It is one of many workshops
Ms. Sussman conducts at her home in Weston.
A small building set off from the main house has become the center
for personal growth and professional training in eidetic imagery,
which Ms. Sussman founded six years ago. It is called Masterwork.
She is also the director of the Imagery Training Center in New
York City, as well as director of research of the National and
International Project of the International Imagery Association.
Masterwork
Ms. Sussman uses eidetic imagery to resolve emotional conflicts,
and also works with people who have learning disabilities, addictions
and allergies.
Ms. Sussman describes an eidetic image as a snapshot of a person's
experiences that is filed away in the brain.
"Within the images are our real selves," she says.
"We are born whole, with a genetic self, and history diminishes
us."
Eidetic imagery unlocks and works with images that can unleash
a person's original nature, as well as happiness, passion and
creativity, she says.
Ms. Sussman has had a lot of success in working with children
that were diagnosed with learning disabilities. "With learning
disabilities the mind has shut down due to the person's environment,
and we work to restore the child's natural abilities," she
says. "For instance, with dyslexia we found there is an intrusion
from someone, so a child could not focus or concentrate."
She recalls her colleagues working with one child that was labeled
mentally retarded, but as it turned out he was really depressed.
Working with this child for about a year in weekly sessions has
turned him around, according to Ms. Sussman.
"He is now a leader in his class."
His mother, Jody, a participant in the Saturday workshop, talks
about the positive changes she saw in her son after he began working
with Ms. Sussman and Dr. Akhter Ahsen, the founder of the imagery
therapy. Her son was diagnosed with learning disabilities.
"He was five years old at the time that I took him to see
Dr. Ahsen, who worked with him for one hour a week for about a
year," Jody says. "They looked at how he learned and
how I could communicate to him in a different way. If I see him
slipping in school I know there is something going on at home."
Eidetic Therapy
Ms. Sussman has worked and trained with Dr. Ahsen for 16 years.
He is a fellow of the American Psychological Association and the
editor of the Journal of Mental Imagery. He is also the founder
of the International Imagery Association and has written 16 books
in the field.
Ms. Sussman met Dr. Ahsen through a friend about 16 years ago,
and became very interested in working with him personally and
training with him professionally. "I've always been a person
that has explored," she says. Before meeting Dr. Ahsen she
had been a staff member at the Esalen Institute in the early 1970's
which was the center of consciousness psychology at that time,
Ms. Sussman explains.
When Dr. Ahsen began his research on eidetic imagery in the early
1950's it was only being studied in the experimental psychology
field. Eidetic therapy falls under the realm of consciousness
psychology, and is now coming to the forefront, Ms. Sussman says.
Consciousness psychology emerged in the early 1900's, but was
overshadowed by the traditonal Freudian psychoanalytical approach,
she says. "Freudian theory makes us adapt to society as it
is," Ms. Sussman says. There is no adaptation with eidetic
therapy, because the answers are within, she adds. Eidetic therapy
taps into our true nature or spirit.
A Powerful Tool
"It's powerful, but it's down to earth, and truthful,"
Jody says. Jody got involved with eidetic therapy through her
sister, who had recommended Dr. Ahsen. Prior to working with Dr.
Ahsen, she had been in traditional psychotherapy for eight years.
" I went to traditional therapy for about eight years, and
I did get in touch with a lot of pain and anger toward my parents,
and I understood why, but I never got past the anger," she
said
.
Entering into eidetic therapy changed the way she thought about
her parents. " I began to focus on more positive things,
and I became much more forgiving of my parents," she says.
The changes she referred to did not take years, but occurred
over intensive two all-day sessions with Dr. Ahsen.
"Dr. Ahsen and Jackie's works get you going, and you don't
become dependent on them,"she adds.
Five more women who participated in the workshop who had switched
from traditional therapy to eidetic therapy had similar experiences.
"It's one thing to go through pain and go through understanding
it...and then traditional therapy asks you to accept it and adapt
to it," says Mary. (Not her real name.)
Mary has been working with Ms. Sussman on a regular basis for
about two years now, and she says the changes she sees in herself
are dramatic.
"This is working for me. I see enormous possibilities,"
she says. " These images are in us, not just a historical
record, but what would have been the natural thing to do before
the hurt got in the way." Much of the work with images is
also done outside the sessions, like homework, Mary says. She
can assess an image on her own to work through a situation or
confront a problem.
Empowerment of Women
The thrust of Ms. Sussman's work in recent years has revolved
around women. She has helped them to rediscover their gifts, potential
and power.
"We really need feminine participation in the world...I
think that women have gotten out there, but they need to know
their unique selves better," Ms. Sussman says.
In the fall she will be teaching women at Hunter College in New
Youk City how to empower themselves. She will also be doing research
at St. John's University.
Also in the works is a book about women in powerful positions
in society. Over the last three years she has interviewed women
such as Gloria Steinem; television anchor Carol Jenkins; and Elizabeth
Kubler-Ross, a renowned psychologist and therapist on death and
dying.
Like these women, Ms. Sussman has a desire to contribute and
improve the world she lives in. She will continue to do this by
empowering other women, teaching, continuing her research and
exploring her own nature.
"There's something happening here," she says. "
Maybe the message and effects of the work are getting out there.